Thanks for your response, SK. I agree with you 100% that these things are not what should be valued most in a woman, but all too often, that’s how it works.
BTW, it’s not that these are a woman’s greatest contributions to a marriage, but how women are valued by society and the men who choose them (though there are some exceptional men who aren’t like this, thankfully). I have to run right now, but will post some more on this later.