Thank so much for all the great advice ! I will call the legal service from work on monday and use the wording recommended.
I am from South America and although I have been blessed not to feel discriminated – I am pretty laid back so if people did I actually didn’t notice/care. I work for a Asian company so ethnicity diversity is in their DNA. I have strong supporters at work that are white. But you never know, they might not like our last name.
It is crazy (and funny) the stories I am reading from you – thank you for sharing!. Is common sense that hard??
I hope I don’t have to go to arbitration though. I just want to paint, i am not interested in ruining the HOA that at the end will increase the fees for everyone. I’ll keep you posted on my saga.