[quote=scaredyclassic]what if i prescreened and rejected people who i thought would get crazy. maybe have a “only wine” policy or something….[/quote]
I don’t know – it seems to me that the problems I’ve seen haven’t been with the bride and groom (or whomever you would be dealing with beforehand) but with the cousins and drunkles and yay-hoos that must be invited (because they’re family!) then proceed to drink themselves into oblivion.
And thinking about it more, the problems I’ve seen haven’t really been at indoor receptions but outdoor receptions. Maybe the problem relatives bring their own ice chests? I don’t know the reason.
We saw it coming during one that turned into a mele so we cut out early and went to a nightclub for the rest of the evening. The next day the bride and groom told us we had made the right decision – things got ugly. 🙂