[quote=scaredyclassic][quote=NYMom]He’s lived here for close to 15 years now and has hated it from the start. It was supposed to be a temporary move for work, but the co. took off and then we met. He’s been wanting to go back for about 8 years now. He’s just very unhappy here. Doesn’t like “the lifestyle,” the weather, or pretty much anything. He feels like he’s waited long enough, worked hard, and should be able to live where he wants to finally.[/quote]
Dudes making $, lives in an awesome spot, but doesn’t like the lifestyle?
I think you guys need to sign up for my intensive counseling course before any big moves.[/quote]
Scaredy is joking a bit here, but I think he has a very valid point. You both should probably take more time to really think about what it is he wants to change. Based on what you’ve posted, it just doesn’t sound as though moving out here would be an improvement in any way (except for the weather, perhaps). It might not be a bad idea to talk to a counselor about this; it’s a big move that will cost a lot of money, and it might create some major resentments and problems if it doesn’t work out as he had hoped.
