“Rustico, are you saying that you have a separate checking account from your wife? You don’t seem like the sort. I thought you were older and have been married for a considerable time. I could be thinking of another piggington though.”
I have separate checking account from my wife but it isn’t about control of money. I have it for my self employment income to keep accounting simplified.I guess I should ahve realized I was not adressing the issue. We have very few concerns about what the other is spending.We are both frugal enough and make good decision most of which we talk about.
“I’m of the opinion that this kind of thing will only work if both parties want it.”
Yeah that is true with pretty with anything to do with a relationship. Give and take is the way to do it.
Anyway this thread is really about money so you must have meant “affairs of the heart” tounge- in -cheek?
By comparison, I trust the sincerity of the “fisrt kiss” thread.