No, but it could be just your street is snooty:) What area in CV do you live in. You can always join our kid’s group, if you don’t mind hanging out with a bunch of asians and jewish people. Yes, there are some folks that have an elitist mentality.
The worst are some of families that have the 1-income earner/stay at home trophy spouse type. I leave gender off, because in some cases it’s the hubby that stays home (or works less).