I love San Diego. If I had billions of dollars, I wouldn’t move more than a few miles from where I’m at right now.
But, if I had to move…those two other cities are really great for excitement, culture, and liberal values. Tons to do, great culture, always something new to explore. That last one is especially true, of course, in NYC.
Both outrageously expensive, obviously. But you’re an attorney. And you’re brilliant. You could make it happen.