marion: I think we’re getting somewhat off topic here. You’re treating this as an ad hominem attack on all women, and I don’t think that is what anyone is saying. Everyone has horror stories about men and women and relationships (especially marriages) gone bad, and the resultant damage.
Getting back on point, the advice offered here was to be careful, and make sure you know what you are getting in to. Dude in question is asking for advice on some fairly weighty issues, and advising caution on anything that could potentially cost you 50% of everything is totally fair.
