JP,
I am not picking on you, just playing “The world according to Rustico” and I agree people should see their responsibilities for what they are. If am man or woman establishes a child rearing situation where one person is dependent there are some pretty deep responsibilities to go with it based on those choices. This is to love and care for those children no matter what and to facilitate the other parent doing that as well. Unfortuantely apparently it turns into a fight over support or avoiding it pretty often.
Yes marion, I find no value in that particular post by davelj. Maybe someone finds entertainment in it? Not my thing.