It would be nice to have a cooperative relationship with China. Unfortunately, that’s not happening right now.
There’s lots wrong with what both countries do internationally. China’s OBOR policy is really just a back door way to subjugate Asia. You could argue that the US has done some of the same things in the past, but the US has vastly more internal policy discord. China is able to align it’s financial, military, diplomatic, commercial, and other sectors and wield it as a single foreign policy tool.