It is not the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. It is the hand that holds the check book. If you want power, do not turn your money over to your wife. Keep your own money, so you do not have to demean yourself by asking for your own hard-earned money.
Brian, not so sure about German women. They are not demure. If you need to dominate, then try a patriarchal country. You choose which one will work for you. As for the people who approve of liberal teaching, the result is young males are being feminized and medicated for being boys in the public schools.