I say savor every moment murph, and bring lucifer a case of stella (most assume he likes german beer, but he told me her prefers stella because it began as a christmas brew, he likes irony).
My hat is off to you for successfuly managing your marriage, last year we were innundated with weekly appearances of husbands catching knifes because their wives said so. All advice was lost on them and I can only imagine their fate since they rarely appear to let us know how it went (I bet they still read though). You did good, a couple nights on the couch is a small price to pay for not losing 10k a month, bravo.