PS, you certainly sound like a person who pats herself on the back more than I ever could. I suppose perhaps each of us could stand to move toward the middle of the spectrum which has self-doubt (which may not be fun, but which maybe provides the necessary true, deep introspection to check that you’re not making a mistake) on one end and self-confidence (which feels good but which, in doses too large, may remove us from the reality of the situation) on the other.