[quote=FlyerInHi]I can understand baggage, but don’t want it my own life. Marriage is supposed to make life more enjoyable. If not, then why do it?
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The only choice, if you don’t want to exchange some baggage is to stay single (because you have plenty too). If you like the trade-off, good for you. Two people can not overcome incompatibility just by co-mingling baggage…that’s the real risk.
