[quote=flu]then refinanced over and over again and heloc’ed the hell out of their home, and then got a loan mod, and then still knee deep in debt, now with a NOD (well, it wouldn’t be the first time) and behind on property tax payment. And yet the wifey still comes back with gobs of shopping bags each weekend….I look at them, and think it’s pretty pathetic. I don’t envy them at all. I wouldn’t want to be in their shoes.[/quote]