[quote=flu]For my own kid, I just want them to want to learn, not me pushing them all the time to do it. [/quote]
Flu, what kind of Carmel Valley asian parent are you??? jk
Kidding aside, I think your approach sounds great. With my other kid, it was obvious after a couple of years of lessons that this was not his thing. So we quit and did something else. Our rule is, kid has to do one sport and one other activity. Kid can choose what.