[quote=CDMA ENG][quote=Blogstar]I was able to surmise when I was 7 that my dad had banged someone elses wife….[/quote]
Five for me… Though I didnt think about sex. It was just another woman. I saw a cigarette with lipstick on it in the cars ashtray and asked my dad if mom had started smoking. He told me know and that the cigarette should be our little secert. I put it all together around 8. I don’t know who felt more cheated on… My mom or me for my dad making me part of his betrayal.
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Sorry that happened to you. That sucks.
In my case the case of my father I was not too hurt by it directly.We were seriously at odds already. The act of revenge I witnessed the woman’s husband attempt and the ensuing divorce of my parents were educational ,or illustrative , or something like that. There are better ways to learn to be honest and keep your business from where it doesn’t belong, of course.