[quote=CA renter]
This is where things get interesting. When you say that one spouse is relying on another spouse supporting them entirely, you’re suggesting that the SAH spouse isn’t *also* contributing to the household.
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Not suggesting that at all.
I think I’ve clearly stated that a stay at home spouse can be appropriate when the youngest child is younger than preschool or 1st grade.
After that, my opinion changes. After that, the spouse’s contribution is better maximized in the workplace.
You’re certainly welcome to your opinion. And I’m welcome to mine. 🙂