Bunny: No worries. I didn’t get a snob feel from you, and the question was a good one. TG makes a good point, too. We have a good sized house on over an acre of land, and in a very quiet neighborhood to boot. My kids are involved with sports and activities, and close to their friends, largely due to the small town aspect.
This is what I grew up with as well, so it matters to me. If you are looking for not only the small town feel, but want some room to stretch out a little, this is a good choice. I would also recommend looking at Bonsall, too.