Of course, I understand the connection. We happen to be members of a very difficult to get into, invitation only club where we live and have been for over 35 years, Harvey. So WELL UNDERSTOOD. I just find your one comment not only NOT HELPFUL in the least, but odd, odd, odd.
When one is new to an area, it is often very helpful for others who have lived there to offer help with comments regarding different areas of the desired location. Apparently, there are those of you who chose, instead to behave differently.