“Yes, but it needn’t have become the impossible situation that it is… that’s really the biggest complaint imho.”[/quote]

Could not agree more, Rich.

IMO, whether what has been done is right or wrong will only become clear as time goes on. Since none of us really have any control over their appointments, I watch the effects of what they are doing, but give very little thought to the “whom” involved.

Again, IMO, if and when things blow up, it will be every person/family for him/her/themselves, so plan well. In the final analysis, that’s what really matters.