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AN I couldn’t disagree more about your comment on therapy in marriage that indicates the marriage is near end.

While that is true for some people, I would argue that going to therapy can be for people to take their relationships to the next level versus averting disaster. For some people its so they can hone in on being more succcessful in life and in the various roles they play. For others its like going to get your car tuned up. Does getting your car worked on mean its almost dead or you’re about to sell it? Not usually, its routine maintenance. Who does not have issues? Any issues? With self, with marriage, job, etc? Everyone has work to do.

What about career coaches? Many highly successful people I know who are CEOs or run their own businesses go to psychologists who specialize in career coaching. These people want to take their careers to the next level but also want to work on balancing their lives.

Therapy isn’t for everyone, but I know plenty of people who do see a therapist and it changes their lives for the better.

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Its a bit harsh for those of us who are not homeless to pass judgment on those who are. If you’re going to give money, to anyone including your friends, family, or a homeless person, do so without your judgment or expectation of how that money is going to be spent.

Has anyone ever talked to homeless people? You will be enlightened by what some of these people face day to day, including getting help. A lot of them go from minimum wage job to layoff to homeless and the cycle repeats again. What does a shelter or food bank do for them long term? Very little other than get them a warm bed and a meal.

If you have a problem giving out cash, give food or clothing DIRECTLY to the homeless people you see. Goodwill and Salvation Army resell the goods you donate.

Have you ever brought a bag of groceries with real food (not cookies, junk food) to a homeless person and seen their extreme gratitude? But also how generous they are with sharing with others who are homeless?

Most of us, including myself, don’t give enough. Those of us who have financial stability, a nice home and nice things should give more, whether it be your time, your money, or your knowledge. Its the humane thing to do. I’m disturbed that we live in a society where people are for the most part incredibly self involved.

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Its a bit harsh for those of us who are not homeless to pass judgment on those who are. If you’re going to give money, to anyone including your friends, family, or a homeless person, do so without your judgment or expectation of how that money is going to be spent.

Has anyone ever talked to homeless people? You will be enlightened by what some of these people face day to day, including getting help. A lot of them go from minimum wage job to layoff to homeless and the cycle repeats again. What does a shelter or food bank do for them long term? Very little other than get them a warm bed and a meal.

If you have a problem giving out cash, give food or clothing DIRECTLY to the homeless people you see. Goodwill and Salvation Army resell the goods you donate.

Have you ever brought a bag of groceries with real food (not cookies, junk food) to a homeless person and seen their extreme gratitude? But also how generous they are with sharing with others who are homeless?

Most of us, including myself, don’t give enough. Those of us who have financial stability, a nice home and nice things should give more, whether it be your time, your money, or your knowledge. Its the humane thing to do. I’m disturbed that we live in a society where people are for the most part incredibly self involved.

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Its a bit harsh for those of us who are not homeless to pass judgment on those who are. If you’re going to give money, to anyone including your friends, family, or a homeless person, do so without your judgment or expectation of how that money is going to be spent.

Has anyone ever talked to homeless people? You will be enlightened by what some of these people face day to day, including getting help. A lot of them go from minimum wage job to layoff to homeless and the cycle repeats again. What does a shelter or food bank do for them long term? Very little other than get them a warm bed and a meal.

If you have a problem giving out cash, give food or clothing DIRECTLY to the homeless people you see. Goodwill and Salvation Army resell the goods you donate.

Have you ever brought a bag of groceries with real food (not cookies, junk food) to a homeless person and seen their extreme gratitude? But also how generous they are with sharing with others who are homeless?

Most of us, including myself, don’t give enough. Those of us who have financial stability, a nice home and nice things should give more, whether it be your time, your money, or your knowledge. Its the humane thing to do. I’m disturbed that we live in a society where people are for the most part incredibly self involved.

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Its a bit harsh for those of us who are not homeless to pass judgment on those who are. If you’re going to give money, to anyone including your friends, family, or a homeless person, do so without your judgment or expectation of how that money is going to be spent.

Has anyone ever talked to homeless people? You will be enlightened by what some of these people face day to day, including getting help. A lot of them go from minimum wage job to layoff to homeless and the cycle repeats again. What does a shelter or food bank do for them long term? Very little other than get them a warm bed and a meal.

If you have a problem giving out cash, give food or clothing DIRECTLY to the homeless people you see. Goodwill and Salvation Army resell the goods you donate.

Have you ever brought a bag of groceries with real food (not cookies, junk food) to a homeless person and seen their extreme gratitude? But also how generous they are with sharing with others who are homeless?

Most of us, including myself, don’t give enough. Those of us who have financial stability, a nice home and nice things should give more, whether it be your time, your money, or your knowledge. Its the humane thing to do. I’m disturbed that we live in a society where people are for the most part incredibly self involved.

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Its a bit harsh for those of us who are not homeless to pass judgment on those who are. If you’re going to give money, to anyone including your friends, family, or a homeless person, do so without your judgment or expectation of how that money is going to be spent.

Has anyone ever talked to homeless people? You will be enlightened by what some of these people face day to day, including getting help. A lot of them go from minimum wage job to layoff to homeless and the cycle repeats again. What does a shelter or food bank do for them long term? Very little other than get them a warm bed and a meal.

If you have a problem giving out cash, give food or clothing DIRECTLY to the homeless people you see. Goodwill and Salvation Army resell the goods you donate.

Have you ever brought a bag of groceries with real food (not cookies, junk food) to a homeless person and seen their extreme gratitude? But also how generous they are with sharing with others who are homeless?

Most of us, including myself, don’t give enough. Those of us who have financial stability, a nice home and nice things should give more, whether it be your time, your money, or your knowledge. Its the humane thing to do. I’m disturbed that we live in a society where people are for the most part incredibly self involved.

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If you don’t read Dwell, I’d highly suggest starting. A lot of misnomers about prefab homes.

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If you don’t read Dwell, I’d highly suggest starting. A lot of misnomers about prefab homes.

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If you don’t read Dwell, I’d highly suggest starting. A lot of misnomers about prefab homes.

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If you don’t read Dwell, I’d highly suggest starting. A lot of misnomers about prefab homes.

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If you don’t read Dwell, I’d highly suggest starting. A lot of misnomers about prefab homes.

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Nicole, it sounds like it simply comes down to choice. You know what your fixed monthly costs are. You know what you take home each month. What’s left is simply what you choose to do with it. Do you want to fund your child’s education fund, save it, invest it? Or do you want to dine out, buy stuff, spend it on entertainment, etc. No one can decide that for you.

I find most people by nature are either spenders or savers. If you are a spender, than maybe you need to make it simple and agree with your husband to cut your eating out from twice a week to once a week. Starvation diets don’t work, they arent sustainable. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

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Nicole, it sounds like it simply comes down to choice. You know what your fixed monthly costs are. You know what you take home each month. What’s left is simply what you choose to do with it. Do you want to fund your child’s education fund, save it, invest it? Or do you want to dine out, buy stuff, spend it on entertainment, etc. No one can decide that for you.

I find most people by nature are either spenders or savers. If you are a spender, than maybe you need to make it simple and agree with your husband to cut your eating out from twice a week to once a week. Starvation diets don’t work, they arent sustainable. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

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Nicole, it sounds like it simply comes down to choice. You know what your fixed monthly costs are. You know what you take home each month. What’s left is simply what you choose to do with it. Do you want to fund your child’s education fund, save it, invest it? Or do you want to dine out, buy stuff, spend it on entertainment, etc. No one can decide that for you.

I find most people by nature are either spenders or savers. If you are a spender, than maybe you need to make it simple and agree with your husband to cut your eating out from twice a week to once a week. Starvation diets don’t work, they arent sustainable. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

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Nicole, it sounds like it simply comes down to choice. You know what your fixed monthly costs are. You know what you take home each month. What’s left is simply what you choose to do with it. Do you want to fund your child’s education fund, save it, invest it? Or do you want to dine out, buy stuff, spend it on entertainment, etc. No one can decide that for you.

I find most people by nature are either spenders or savers. If you are a spender, than maybe you need to make it simple and agree with your husband to cut your eating out from twice a week to once a week. Starvation diets don’t work, they arent sustainable. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

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