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Participantpemeliza- yes i am one of those buyers on the sidelines that can afford to buy a home in my desired neighborhoods, but have chosen not to as i believe theres still a ways to go down. the math just doesn’t pencil out when it comes to potential rental scenarios if i needed to rent it out due to job relocation, etc. the homes on the market i can afford are just not desirable in terms of lot size, sq footage, condition, etc. i’m primarily looking in the mission hills, north park, university heights area which i think has had better staying power due to the demographics and desireability. i’d like to think better homes will come on the market as more downward pressure is put on these areas.
secondly, i have uncertainty about my earnings / career looking forward the next few years due to a number of reasons. while i could buy even if my earnings were to dip significantly and i have the safety net to pay the mortgage for a significant length of time, that is not my ideal scenario, call it being conservative, so hence i sit on the sidelines. i’m interested to see what happens this year with loans resetting and principal balances kicking in for the large swath of IO prime loans, whether jobless claims continue to rise, and whether the gov’t intervention runs out of steam.
zzz
Participantpemeliza- yes i am one of those buyers on the sidelines that can afford to buy a home in my desired neighborhoods, but have chosen not to as i believe theres still a ways to go down. the math just doesn’t pencil out when it comes to potential rental scenarios if i needed to rent it out due to job relocation, etc. the homes on the market i can afford are just not desirable in terms of lot size, sq footage, condition, etc. i’m primarily looking in the mission hills, north park, university heights area which i think has had better staying power due to the demographics and desireability. i’d like to think better homes will come on the market as more downward pressure is put on these areas.
secondly, i have uncertainty about my earnings / career looking forward the next few years due to a number of reasons. while i could buy even if my earnings were to dip significantly and i have the safety net to pay the mortgage for a significant length of time, that is not my ideal scenario, call it being conservative, so hence i sit on the sidelines. i’m interested to see what happens this year with loans resetting and principal balances kicking in for the large swath of IO prime loans, whether jobless claims continue to rise, and whether the gov’t intervention runs out of steam.
zzz
Participantpemeliza- yes i am one of those buyers on the sidelines that can afford to buy a home in my desired neighborhoods, but have chosen not to as i believe theres still a ways to go down. the math just doesn’t pencil out when it comes to potential rental scenarios if i needed to rent it out due to job relocation, etc. the homes on the market i can afford are just not desirable in terms of lot size, sq footage, condition, etc. i’m primarily looking in the mission hills, north park, university heights area which i think has had better staying power due to the demographics and desireability. i’d like to think better homes will come on the market as more downward pressure is put on these areas.
secondly, i have uncertainty about my earnings / career looking forward the next few years due to a number of reasons. while i could buy even if my earnings were to dip significantly and i have the safety net to pay the mortgage for a significant length of time, that is not my ideal scenario, call it being conservative, so hence i sit on the sidelines. i’m interested to see what happens this year with loans resetting and principal balances kicking in for the large swath of IO prime loans, whether jobless claims continue to rise, and whether the gov’t intervention runs out of steam.
zzz
Participantpemeliza- yes i am one of those buyers on the sidelines that can afford to buy a home in my desired neighborhoods, but have chosen not to as i believe theres still a ways to go down. the math just doesn’t pencil out when it comes to potential rental scenarios if i needed to rent it out due to job relocation, etc. the homes on the market i can afford are just not desirable in terms of lot size, sq footage, condition, etc. i’m primarily looking in the mission hills, north park, university heights area which i think has had better staying power due to the demographics and desireability. i’d like to think better homes will come on the market as more downward pressure is put on these areas.
secondly, i have uncertainty about my earnings / career looking forward the next few years due to a number of reasons. while i could buy even if my earnings were to dip significantly and i have the safety net to pay the mortgage for a significant length of time, that is not my ideal scenario, call it being conservative, so hence i sit on the sidelines. i’m interested to see what happens this year with loans resetting and principal balances kicking in for the large swath of IO prime loans, whether jobless claims continue to rise, and whether the gov’t intervention runs out of steam.
zzz
Participantpemeliza- yes i am one of those buyers on the sidelines that can afford to buy a home in my desired neighborhoods, but have chosen not to as i believe theres still a ways to go down. the math just doesn’t pencil out when it comes to potential rental scenarios if i needed to rent it out due to job relocation, etc. the homes on the market i can afford are just not desirable in terms of lot size, sq footage, condition, etc. i’m primarily looking in the mission hills, north park, university heights area which i think has had better staying power due to the demographics and desireability. i’d like to think better homes will come on the market as more downward pressure is put on these areas.
secondly, i have uncertainty about my earnings / career looking forward the next few years due to a number of reasons. while i could buy even if my earnings were to dip significantly and i have the safety net to pay the mortgage for a significant length of time, that is not my ideal scenario, call it being conservative, so hence i sit on the sidelines. i’m interested to see what happens this year with loans resetting and principal balances kicking in for the large swath of IO prime loans, whether jobless claims continue to rise, and whether the gov’t intervention runs out of steam.
zzz
ParticipantHi AN, thanks for the response. I would say I suspect most people go to therapy to salvage versus being proactive. I think many people think of therapy and associate it with the negative stigma that you must be broken, or you have mental illness, or that you don’t need someone else to tell you what’s wrong.
My car analogy does apply from this respect, your car needs maintentance to prevent issues as well as to address them, and yes the inevitable is that your car will die some day. Therapy or working through issues is so that you can prolong the inevitable which is death of marriage by divorce, or to keep your car / marriage running in good condition. Everything ends, your car dies, we die. Now the timeframe is not the same, but I think you get my point that people are willing to do maintenance on their cars and dont’ even think twice about it, but now doing maintenance on one self, well that isn’t so obvious to most people.
zzz
ParticipantHi AN, thanks for the response. I would say I suspect most people go to therapy to salvage versus being proactive. I think many people think of therapy and associate it with the negative stigma that you must be broken, or you have mental illness, or that you don’t need someone else to tell you what’s wrong.
My car analogy does apply from this respect, your car needs maintentance to prevent issues as well as to address them, and yes the inevitable is that your car will die some day. Therapy or working through issues is so that you can prolong the inevitable which is death of marriage by divorce, or to keep your car / marriage running in good condition. Everything ends, your car dies, we die. Now the timeframe is not the same, but I think you get my point that people are willing to do maintenance on their cars and dont’ even think twice about it, but now doing maintenance on one self, well that isn’t so obvious to most people.
zzz
ParticipantHi AN, thanks for the response. I would say I suspect most people go to therapy to salvage versus being proactive. I think many people think of therapy and associate it with the negative stigma that you must be broken, or you have mental illness, or that you don’t need someone else to tell you what’s wrong.
My car analogy does apply from this respect, your car needs maintentance to prevent issues as well as to address them, and yes the inevitable is that your car will die some day. Therapy or working through issues is so that you can prolong the inevitable which is death of marriage by divorce, or to keep your car / marriage running in good condition. Everything ends, your car dies, we die. Now the timeframe is not the same, but I think you get my point that people are willing to do maintenance on their cars and dont’ even think twice about it, but now doing maintenance on one self, well that isn’t so obvious to most people.
zzz
ParticipantHi AN, thanks for the response. I would say I suspect most people go to therapy to salvage versus being proactive. I think many people think of therapy and associate it with the negative stigma that you must be broken, or you have mental illness, or that you don’t need someone else to tell you what’s wrong.
My car analogy does apply from this respect, your car needs maintentance to prevent issues as well as to address them, and yes the inevitable is that your car will die some day. Therapy or working through issues is so that you can prolong the inevitable which is death of marriage by divorce, or to keep your car / marriage running in good condition. Everything ends, your car dies, we die. Now the timeframe is not the same, but I think you get my point that people are willing to do maintenance on their cars and dont’ even think twice about it, but now doing maintenance on one self, well that isn’t so obvious to most people.
zzz
ParticipantHi AN, thanks for the response. I would say I suspect most people go to therapy to salvage versus being proactive. I think many people think of therapy and associate it with the negative stigma that you must be broken, or you have mental illness, or that you don’t need someone else to tell you what’s wrong.
My car analogy does apply from this respect, your car needs maintentance to prevent issues as well as to address them, and yes the inevitable is that your car will die some day. Therapy or working through issues is so that you can prolong the inevitable which is death of marriage by divorce, or to keep your car / marriage running in good condition. Everything ends, your car dies, we die. Now the timeframe is not the same, but I think you get my point that people are willing to do maintenance on their cars and dont’ even think twice about it, but now doing maintenance on one self, well that isn’t so obvious to most people.
zzz
ParticipantAN I couldn’t disagree more about your comment on therapy in marriage that indicates the marriage is near end.
While that is true for some people, I would argue that going to therapy can be for people to take their relationships to the next level versus averting disaster. For some people its so they can hone in on being more succcessful in life and in the various roles they play. For others its like going to get your car tuned up. Does getting your car worked on mean its almost dead or you’re about to sell it? Not usually, its routine maintenance. Who does not have issues? Any issues? With self, with marriage, job, etc? Everyone has work to do.
What about career coaches? Many highly successful people I know who are CEOs or run their own businesses go to psychologists who specialize in career coaching. These people want to take their careers to the next level but also want to work on balancing their lives.
Therapy isn’t for everyone, but I know plenty of people who do see a therapist and it changes their lives for the better.
zzz
ParticipantAN I couldn’t disagree more about your comment on therapy in marriage that indicates the marriage is near end.
While that is true for some people, I would argue that going to therapy can be for people to take their relationships to the next level versus averting disaster. For some people its so they can hone in on being more succcessful in life and in the various roles they play. For others its like going to get your car tuned up. Does getting your car worked on mean its almost dead or you’re about to sell it? Not usually, its routine maintenance. Who does not have issues? Any issues? With self, with marriage, job, etc? Everyone has work to do.
What about career coaches? Many highly successful people I know who are CEOs or run their own businesses go to psychologists who specialize in career coaching. These people want to take their careers to the next level but also want to work on balancing their lives.
Therapy isn’t for everyone, but I know plenty of people who do see a therapist and it changes their lives for the better.
zzz
ParticipantAN I couldn’t disagree more about your comment on therapy in marriage that indicates the marriage is near end.
While that is true for some people, I would argue that going to therapy can be for people to take their relationships to the next level versus averting disaster. For some people its so they can hone in on being more succcessful in life and in the various roles they play. For others its like going to get your car tuned up. Does getting your car worked on mean its almost dead or you’re about to sell it? Not usually, its routine maintenance. Who does not have issues? Any issues? With self, with marriage, job, etc? Everyone has work to do.
What about career coaches? Many highly successful people I know who are CEOs or run their own businesses go to psychologists who specialize in career coaching. These people want to take their careers to the next level but also want to work on balancing their lives.
Therapy isn’t for everyone, but I know plenty of people who do see a therapist and it changes their lives for the better.
zzz
ParticipantAN I couldn’t disagree more about your comment on therapy in marriage that indicates the marriage is near end.
While that is true for some people, I would argue that going to therapy can be for people to take their relationships to the next level versus averting disaster. For some people its so they can hone in on being more succcessful in life and in the various roles they play. For others its like going to get your car tuned up. Does getting your car worked on mean its almost dead or you’re about to sell it? Not usually, its routine maintenance. Who does not have issues? Any issues? With self, with marriage, job, etc? Everyone has work to do.
What about career coaches? Many highly successful people I know who are CEOs or run their own businesses go to psychologists who specialize in career coaching. These people want to take their careers to the next level but also want to work on balancing their lives.
Therapy isn’t for everyone, but I know plenty of people who do see a therapist and it changes their lives for the better.
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