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December 22, 2007 at 2:04 PM #122815December 22, 2007 at 2:10 PM #123047
temeculaguy
ParticipantI don’t know the process of a second foreclosure but isn’t the threat of having to move on short notice reason enough to leave now and set up somewhere more stable. Forget the “what you might get for free” and just bail after you’ve gotten the time you have paid for. Don’t pay the January rent and move in January, give them notice now. I think that whatever lease you are in has been broken by them a few times over. Regardless of the procedure, if your landlord doesn’t pay for the house, eventually it isn’t his house. A Sept. NOD means time is running out anyway, there are only a few months left, just take your dollars elsewhere.
December 22, 2007 at 2:10 PM #122968temeculaguy
ParticipantI don’t know the process of a second foreclosure but isn’t the threat of having to move on short notice reason enough to leave now and set up somewhere more stable. Forget the “what you might get for free” and just bail after you’ve gotten the time you have paid for. Don’t pay the January rent and move in January, give them notice now. I think that whatever lease you are in has been broken by them a few times over. Regardless of the procedure, if your landlord doesn’t pay for the house, eventually it isn’t his house. A Sept. NOD means time is running out anyway, there are only a few months left, just take your dollars elsewhere.
December 22, 2007 at 2:10 PM #123065temeculaguy
ParticipantI don’t know the process of a second foreclosure but isn’t the threat of having to move on short notice reason enough to leave now and set up somewhere more stable. Forget the “what you might get for free” and just bail after you’ve gotten the time you have paid for. Don’t pay the January rent and move in January, give them notice now. I think that whatever lease you are in has been broken by them a few times over. Regardless of the procedure, if your landlord doesn’t pay for the house, eventually it isn’t his house. A Sept. NOD means time is running out anyway, there are only a few months left, just take your dollars elsewhere.
December 22, 2007 at 2:10 PM #122820temeculaguy
ParticipantI don’t know the process of a second foreclosure but isn’t the threat of having to move on short notice reason enough to leave now and set up somewhere more stable. Forget the “what you might get for free” and just bail after you’ve gotten the time you have paid for. Don’t pay the January rent and move in January, give them notice now. I think that whatever lease you are in has been broken by them a few times over. Regardless of the procedure, if your landlord doesn’t pay for the house, eventually it isn’t his house. A Sept. NOD means time is running out anyway, there are only a few months left, just take your dollars elsewhere.
December 22, 2007 at 2:10 PM #122990temeculaguy
ParticipantI don’t know the process of a second foreclosure but isn’t the threat of having to move on short notice reason enough to leave now and set up somewhere more stable. Forget the “what you might get for free” and just bail after you’ve gotten the time you have paid for. Don’t pay the January rent and move in January, give them notice now. I think that whatever lease you are in has been broken by them a few times over. Regardless of the procedure, if your landlord doesn’t pay for the house, eventually it isn’t his house. A Sept. NOD means time is running out anyway, there are only a few months left, just take your dollars elsewhere.
December 22, 2007 at 4:14 PM #122845Anonymous
GuestTG, thanks for the reply. You’re right, this situation is not worth the worry. It’s time to get out. My son is fine with moving. It seems I was projecting my concerns about his ability to adapt to new surroundings onto him even though he has never had a problem before. No worries.
December 22, 2007 at 4:14 PM #123017Anonymous
GuestTG, thanks for the reply. You’re right, this situation is not worth the worry. It’s time to get out. My son is fine with moving. It seems I was projecting my concerns about his ability to adapt to new surroundings onto him even though he has never had a problem before. No worries.
December 22, 2007 at 4:14 PM #123073Anonymous
GuestTG, thanks for the reply. You’re right, this situation is not worth the worry. It’s time to get out. My son is fine with moving. It seems I was projecting my concerns about his ability to adapt to new surroundings onto him even though he has never had a problem before. No worries.
December 22, 2007 at 4:14 PM #123091Anonymous
GuestTG, thanks for the reply. You’re right, this situation is not worth the worry. It’s time to get out. My son is fine with moving. It seems I was projecting my concerns about his ability to adapt to new surroundings onto him even though he has never had a problem before. No worries.
December 22, 2007 at 4:14 PM #122989Anonymous
GuestTG, thanks for the reply. You’re right, this situation is not worth the worry. It’s time to get out. My son is fine with moving. It seems I was projecting my concerns about his ability to adapt to new surroundings onto him even though he has never had a problem before. No worries.
December 22, 2007 at 4:30 PM #123022bubba99
ParticipantMom’s best bets are to foreclose from the second position, or let to let the first foreclose and simply bid on the property. This would effectively wipe out any thirds, and in the second position, she would get any “overages” from the sale. Her paying the first to keep it out of foreclosure is a mistake.
From your perspective, if mom can actually pay off the first via a new loan, or at auction, no need to move. She will probably still want a good renter.
But mom really needs to get some professional help to make any of this work, and possible protect herself from what is becomming an abusive son who might see “other” solutions to his problem. There seems to be no limit to the damage family arguments can cause to the family members.
December 22, 2007 at 4:30 PM #122849bubba99
ParticipantMom’s best bets are to foreclose from the second position, or let to let the first foreclose and simply bid on the property. This would effectively wipe out any thirds, and in the second position, she would get any “overages” from the sale. Her paying the first to keep it out of foreclosure is a mistake.
From your perspective, if mom can actually pay off the first via a new loan, or at auction, no need to move. She will probably still want a good renter.
But mom really needs to get some professional help to make any of this work, and possible protect herself from what is becomming an abusive son who might see “other” solutions to his problem. There seems to be no limit to the damage family arguments can cause to the family members.
December 22, 2007 at 4:30 PM #122994bubba99
ParticipantMom’s best bets are to foreclose from the second position, or let to let the first foreclose and simply bid on the property. This would effectively wipe out any thirds, and in the second position, she would get any “overages” from the sale. Her paying the first to keep it out of foreclosure is a mistake.
From your perspective, if mom can actually pay off the first via a new loan, or at auction, no need to move. She will probably still want a good renter.
But mom really needs to get some professional help to make any of this work, and possible protect herself from what is becomming an abusive son who might see “other” solutions to his problem. There seems to be no limit to the damage family arguments can cause to the family members.
December 22, 2007 at 4:30 PM #123078bubba99
ParticipantMom’s best bets are to foreclose from the second position, or let to let the first foreclose and simply bid on the property. This would effectively wipe out any thirds, and in the second position, she would get any “overages” from the sale. Her paying the first to keep it out of foreclosure is a mistake.
From your perspective, if mom can actually pay off the first via a new loan, or at auction, no need to move. She will probably still want a good renter.
But mom really needs to get some professional help to make any of this work, and possible protect herself from what is becomming an abusive son who might see “other” solutions to his problem. There seems to be no limit to the damage family arguments can cause to the family members.
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