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March 18, 2024 at 3:31 PM #903035March 19, 2024 at 4:32 AM #903066HobieParticipant
At least put the property in a trust. It is a cakewalk for your kids to deal with after you are gone vs. probate. Probate forces a judge to try to figure out your intentions. And your kids will have to pay an attorney to deal with it. Ain’t cheap… especially if it gets complicated or contested. Do anything to avoid probate!
Trusts are easy to change during your lifetime. One thing to consider are the future spouses of your kids. They can be a problem if, say your 3 kids are equal co-owners of a property. What happens if at that point your own kid passes and the other kids become partners with a ‘disliked’ spouse. The trust can spell out and clarify the what-if’s. How well do the kids get along with each other and handle their own finances now? How about setting up some kind of college fund for future grandkids? Trust can do that.
Personally, I feel it is better to spell out as much as possible your wishes. It does make it easier for the siblings to proceed when you pass. ie. must sell the house within X years, favorite art piece goes to X and it also designates someone to be the ‘boss'( trustee) to oversee its execution.
Might be worth $3k if the atty really knows family dynamics and asks those kind of questions during pre-interview and you have a million questions. Otherwise a $1500 atty to write it up if indeed you have a very simple estate.
And, don’t forget to fund the trust. ie. re title the property into the trust name. Otherwise it is not valid.
March 19, 2024 at 10:51 AM #903067XBoxBoyParticipantI’m no expert on this, but have been down the route of hiring a lawyer, creating a trust etc. From my experience a trust is only a part of the of package. More important is the will and a power of attorney/medical directive. The will is what makes it so you can avoid probate and the medical directive is what makes sure if you become unable to care for yourself your wishes are known and who decides for you. Depending on the value of your estate, a trust might be needed or might not. The will and medical directive are always good to have.
So just to emphasis: Make sure you get the will and medical directive, not just the trust.
A couple small suggestions:
1) Think about the name of the trust. Attorney’s like to pick names like: “Johanna and Bethany Smith Revocable Family Trust of 2024”. The problem with that is the name is long and it publicly identifies you. If you place assets in the trust the deed or stock accounts will have that for the name. If you name is long enough, it actually becomes too long to fit into the forms you will be filling out. Real estate in your trust will now have your name on the public records. (Which maybe is okay, maybe not, depending on how much you value your privacy.) Maybe a little thing, but boy I wish we had named our trust something simple like “The Big Dog Trust”.
Try to keep your trust simple. How to disperse assets should be in one section. Then if you want to amend your trust amendments are simple.
June 6, 2024 at 5:42 PM #903198jeemanParticipantDid you end up DIYing it? I need to create one too, and I see some websites that help you DIY for free.
June 8, 2024 at 4:37 PM #903204bibsoconnerParticipant@jeeman No, I haven’t done anything yet. Like I mentioned in my first post, I’m a “foot dragger”. Possibly the fact that it involves my own mortality makes me even more of a foot dragger! Sounds like you’re further than me. I haven’t even figured out if revocable, or non-revocable trust is the way to go.
I did look into some firms and they wanted $4000-$6000 which seems steep. Adding to the cost is the fact that the firms that charged that amount said they wouldn’t/couldn’t deal with foreign property. I’d need some other sort of special attorney for that.
June 11, 2024 at 9:57 AM #903207evolusdv2ParticipantAt a minimum set up a revocable family trust. My understanding is that irrevocable trusts are really only beneficial for those with 8 figure net worths that are subject to estate tax.
Transfer property title into it and attorney will advise how to vest bank/investment accounts (in the name of the trust or personally with beneficiary designations).
A few grand for a revocable trust will pay dividends to your beneficiaries in both cost and effort when the time comes – definitely worthwhile.
June 14, 2024 at 12:58 PM #903238sdrealtorParticipantI cant beleive people out there dont do this? Its not that much and is one of the best final gifts you can leave to your heirs. Having been through it all with my mom’s passing 5 years ago it made all the difference in the world.
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