scaredycat in escrow….scared….

[svelte]

You ain’t getting any younger, dude.

Take a chance…and I don’t even think it’s that big of a risk…go for it.

No matter whether prices go up a bit or down a bit in the next couple years, in TWENTY years you’re going to look back and wish you hadn’t worried because it will seem obvious you did the right thing. It’s a no-brainer.

As Tom Petty said in “Crawling Back to You” on Wildflowers…

…Sure as night will follow day…Most things I worry about…Never happen anyway…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL4ThLS7F94

Stop worrying. Just do it.

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i have a journal-type thing I have done for 15 years. every 6 months or so, I draw up a list called THINGS I AM WORRIED ABOUT. Then I list everything that is weighing on my mind. I save the lists in a box of saved stuff. it is hilarious to read old lists of things you worry about. Like NOTHING i have ever worried about i my life has ever ended up being an actual problem! literally NOTHING. weird. i always have plenty of crap to put on my lists though.

I feel like i bid a little too high on this house because it was an internet auction and I was intoxicated at the time of the bid. I am thinking about asking the bank to pay all closing costs or walking if they don’t and just leaving it up to fate. I think it’s not likely to get a bank to reconsider a lower bid on an REO unless the inspection comes back horrendous, but what about renegotiating closing costs? Is that within the real of possibility? I want to walk and blame it on fate.

[scaredyclassic]

i have a journal-type thing I have done for 15 years. every 6 months or so, I draw up a list called THINGS I AM WORRIED ABOUT. Then I list everything that is weighing on my mind. I save the lists in a box of saved stuff. it is hilarious to read old lists of things you worry about. Like NOTHING i have ever worried about i my life has ever ended up being an actual problem! literally NOTHING. weird. i always have plenty of crap to put on my lists though.

I feel like i bid a little too high on this house because it was an internet auction and I was intoxicated at the time of the bid. I am thinking about asking the bank to pay all closing costs or walking if they don’t and just leaving it up to fate. I think it’s not likely to get a bank to reconsider a lower bid on an REO unless the inspection comes back horrendous, but what about renegotiating closing costs? Is that within the real of possibility? I want to walk and blame it on fate.

[scaredyclassic]

i have a journal-type thing I have done for 15 years. every 6 months or so, I draw up a list called THINGS I AM WORRIED ABOUT. Then I list everything that is weighing on my mind. I save the lists in a box of saved stuff. it is hilarious to read old lists of things you worry about. Like NOTHING i have ever worried about i my life has ever ended up being an actual problem! literally NOTHING. weird. i always have plenty of crap to put on my lists though.

I feel like i bid a little too high on this house because it was an internet auction and I was intoxicated at the time of the bid. I am thinking about asking the bank to pay all closing costs or walking if they don’t and just leaving it up to fate. I think it’s not likely to get a bank to reconsider a lower bid on an REO unless the inspection comes back horrendous, but what about renegotiating closing costs? Is that within the real of possibility? I want to walk and blame it on fate.

[scaredyclassic]

i have a journal-type thing I have done for 15 years. every 6 months or so, I draw up a list called THINGS I AM WORRIED ABOUT. Then I list everything that is weighing on my mind. I save the lists in a box of saved stuff. it is hilarious to read old lists of things you worry about. Like NOTHING i have ever worried about i my life has ever ended up being an actual problem! literally NOTHING. weird. i always have plenty of crap to put on my lists though.

I feel like i bid a little too high on this house because it was an internet auction and I was intoxicated at the time of the bid. I am thinking about asking the bank to pay all closing costs or walking if they don’t and just leaving it up to fate. I think it’s not likely to get a bank to reconsider a lower bid on an REO unless the inspection comes back horrendous, but what about renegotiating closing costs? Is that within the real of possibility? I want to walk and blame it on fate.

[scaredyclassic]

i have a journal-type thing I have done for 15 years. every 6 months or so, I draw up a list called THINGS I AM WORRIED ABOUT. Then I list everything that is weighing on my mind. I save the lists in a box of saved stuff. it is hilarious to read old lists of things you worry about. Like NOTHING i have ever worried about i my life has ever ended up being an actual problem! literally NOTHING. weird. i always have plenty of crap to put on my lists though.

I feel like i bid a little too high on this house because it was an internet auction and I was intoxicated at the time of the bid. I am thinking about asking the bank to pay all closing costs or walking if they don’t and just leaving it up to fate. I think it’s not likely to get a bank to reconsider a lower bid on an REO unless the inspection comes back horrendous, but what about renegotiating closing costs? Is that within the real of possibility? I want to walk and blame it on fate.

[KIBU]

1. There is no perfect house. If you imagined that you could comfortably live in there, that’s great!

2. Money should not be as important to you at this point. I say your and your family quality of life would be more important and would make bigger difference for you. Forget about the low monthly payment.

3. Waiting more will just make your wife more anxious and sad. Why don’t you just give her a hot kiss and say, hey baby I made up my mind and we will buy the darn house because I want to buy it for you and if my decision turn out to be wrong later I am ready for you to blame me forever I won’t mind because I do everything for you to make you happy baby….etc..

4. After you bought the house, you will come to love it. Like getting to know a lover, you get to know your lover slowly and then be surprised of the many hidden beauty (your mind will automatically work to find out all the good things about your house) and you will be joyful and think that you are a really smart person to have picked the perfect home (perfection exists after you own the home).

5. Afterward, your wife will go out and do shopping spree and you will argue with her on what color to paint, what to buy, what not to buy….etc (be careful at this point, divorce is not an option!)

Good luck.

[KIBU]

1. There is no perfect house. If you imagined that you could comfortably live in there, that’s great!

2. Money should not be as important to you at this point. I say your and your family quality of life would be more important and would make bigger difference for you. Forget about the low monthly payment.

3. Waiting more will just make your wife more anxious and sad. Why don’t you just give her a hot kiss and say, hey baby I made up my mind and we will buy the darn house because I want to buy it for you and if my decision turn out to be wrong later I am ready for you to blame me forever I won’t mind because I do everything for you to make you happy baby….etc..

4. After you bought the house, you will come to love it. Like getting to know a lover, you get to know your lover slowly and then be surprised of the many hidden beauty (your mind will automatically work to find out all the good things about your house) and you will be joyful and think that you are a really smart person to have picked the perfect home (perfection exists after you own the home).

5. Afterward, your wife will go out and do shopping spree and you will argue with her on what color to paint, what to buy, what not to buy….etc (be careful at this point, divorce is not an option!)

Good luck.

[KIBU]

1. There is no perfect house. If you imagined that you could comfortably live in there, that’s great!

2. Money should not be as important to you at this point. I say your and your family quality of life would be more important and would make bigger difference for you. Forget about the low monthly payment.

3. Waiting more will just make your wife more anxious and sad. Why don’t you just give her a hot kiss and say, hey baby I made up my mind and we will buy the darn house because I want to buy it for you and if my decision turn out to be wrong later I am ready for you to blame me forever I won’t mind because I do everything for you to make you happy baby….etc..

4. After you bought the house, you will come to love it. Like getting to know a lover, you get to know your lover slowly and then be surprised of the many hidden beauty (your mind will automatically work to find out all the good things about your house) and you will be joyful and think that you are a really smart person to have picked the perfect home (perfection exists after you own the home).

5. Afterward, your wife will go out and do shopping spree and you will argue with her on what color to paint, what to buy, what not to buy….etc (be careful at this point, divorce is not an option!)

Good luck.

[KIBU]

1. There is no perfect house. If you imagined that you could comfortably live in there, that’s great!

2. Money should not be as important to you at this point. I say your and your family quality of life would be more important and would make bigger difference for you. Forget about the low monthly payment.

3. Waiting more will just make your wife more anxious and sad. Why don’t you just give her a hot kiss and say, hey baby I made up my mind and we will buy the darn house because I want to buy it for you and if my decision turn out to be wrong later I am ready for you to blame me forever I won’t mind because I do everything for you to make you happy baby….etc..

4. After you bought the house, you will come to love it. Like getting to know a lover, you get to know your lover slowly and then be surprised of the many hidden beauty (your mind will automatically work to find out all the good things about your house) and you will be joyful and think that you are a really smart person to have picked the perfect home (perfection exists after you own the home).

5. Afterward, your wife will go out and do shopping spree and you will argue with her on what color to paint, what to buy, what not to buy….etc (be careful at this point, divorce is not an option!)

Good luck.

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