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August 29, 2008 at 8:34 PM #263627August 29, 2008 at 10:10 PM #263370jrsygirl9Participant
two migraines later, I am beginning to agree that this is not worth the drama.
My other thought process was to tell the LL hey look I won’t sue you for the rent already plus damages times 3 if you don’t file a UD, collect more rent or try to evict me. i thought it was a win- win but my husband said it sounds like i am threatening to sue him. My thought is quite the opposite. Leave me in peace I will leave you in peace. Of course for the trouble and the fact that i paid a HEFTY deposit… i am not leaving until they put that note on the door.
does that offer sound threatening or am I naive to think that he might possess an ounce of common decency.
August 29, 2008 at 10:10 PM #263579jrsygirl9Participanttwo migraines later, I am beginning to agree that this is not worth the drama.
My other thought process was to tell the LL hey look I won’t sue you for the rent already plus damages times 3 if you don’t file a UD, collect more rent or try to evict me. i thought it was a win- win but my husband said it sounds like i am threatening to sue him. My thought is quite the opposite. Leave me in peace I will leave you in peace. Of course for the trouble and the fact that i paid a HEFTY deposit… i am not leaving until they put that note on the door.
does that offer sound threatening or am I naive to think that he might possess an ounce of common decency.
August 29, 2008 at 10:10 PM #263584jrsygirl9Participanttwo migraines later, I am beginning to agree that this is not worth the drama.
My other thought process was to tell the LL hey look I won’t sue you for the rent already plus damages times 3 if you don’t file a UD, collect more rent or try to evict me. i thought it was a win- win but my husband said it sounds like i am threatening to sue him. My thought is quite the opposite. Leave me in peace I will leave you in peace. Of course for the trouble and the fact that i paid a HEFTY deposit… i am not leaving until they put that note on the door.
does that offer sound threatening or am I naive to think that he might possess an ounce of common decency.
August 29, 2008 at 10:10 PM #263636jrsygirl9Participanttwo migraines later, I am beginning to agree that this is not worth the drama.
My other thought process was to tell the LL hey look I won’t sue you for the rent already plus damages times 3 if you don’t file a UD, collect more rent or try to evict me. i thought it was a win- win but my husband said it sounds like i am threatening to sue him. My thought is quite the opposite. Leave me in peace I will leave you in peace. Of course for the trouble and the fact that i paid a HEFTY deposit… i am not leaving until they put that note on the door.
does that offer sound threatening or am I naive to think that he might possess an ounce of common decency.
August 29, 2008 at 10:10 PM #263672jrsygirl9Participanttwo migraines later, I am beginning to agree that this is not worth the drama.
My other thought process was to tell the LL hey look I won’t sue you for the rent already plus damages times 3 if you don’t file a UD, collect more rent or try to evict me. i thought it was a win- win but my husband said it sounds like i am threatening to sue him. My thought is quite the opposite. Leave me in peace I will leave you in peace. Of course for the trouble and the fact that i paid a HEFTY deposit… i am not leaving until they put that note on the door.
does that offer sound threatening or am I naive to think that he might possess an ounce of common decency.
August 29, 2008 at 11:04 PM #263380jonnycsdParticipantSo are you suggesting that in exchange for not suing the LL, he would let you live there for free? Sounds like the two of you deserve each other. Karma indeed.
August 29, 2008 at 11:04 PM #263588jonnycsdParticipantSo are you suggesting that in exchange for not suing the LL, he would let you live there for free? Sounds like the two of you deserve each other. Karma indeed.
August 29, 2008 at 11:04 PM #263594jonnycsdParticipantSo are you suggesting that in exchange for not suing the LL, he would let you live there for free? Sounds like the two of you deserve each other. Karma indeed.
August 29, 2008 at 11:04 PM #263646jonnycsdParticipantSo are you suggesting that in exchange for not suing the LL, he would let you live there for free? Sounds like the two of you deserve each other. Karma indeed.
August 29, 2008 at 11:04 PM #263682jonnycsdParticipantSo are you suggesting that in exchange for not suing the LL, he would let you live there for free? Sounds like the two of you deserve each other. Karma indeed.
August 30, 2008 at 12:23 AM #263430AnonymousGuestBPO- Broker’s Price Opinion I think. They send someone to give them an estimate of what a broker would put it on the market for- as opposed to an appraiser. If you’re planning on purchasing come hell or high water, pay the rent and buy the place. That’s what you were originally planning on anyway right? Withholding the rent (while totally understandable and desirable) has potential ramifications that you don’t need, if indeed you’re going to purchase. I’d only stop paying the month of the trustee’s sale. But it would still irk me about that deposit you’re not going to get back.
Negotiating I’d look for a win win win. Bank wipes a bad loan off, you get a house, landlord gets out from under a bad deal (and without any more of your money) Don’t know if there is one, but maybe you can think of one.August 30, 2008 at 12:23 AM #263639AnonymousGuestBPO- Broker’s Price Opinion I think. They send someone to give them an estimate of what a broker would put it on the market for- as opposed to an appraiser. If you’re planning on purchasing come hell or high water, pay the rent and buy the place. That’s what you were originally planning on anyway right? Withholding the rent (while totally understandable and desirable) has potential ramifications that you don’t need, if indeed you’re going to purchase. I’d only stop paying the month of the trustee’s sale. But it would still irk me about that deposit you’re not going to get back.
Negotiating I’d look for a win win win. Bank wipes a bad loan off, you get a house, landlord gets out from under a bad deal (and without any more of your money) Don’t know if there is one, but maybe you can think of one.August 30, 2008 at 12:23 AM #263643AnonymousGuestBPO- Broker’s Price Opinion I think. They send someone to give them an estimate of what a broker would put it on the market for- as opposed to an appraiser. If you’re planning on purchasing come hell or high water, pay the rent and buy the place. That’s what you were originally planning on anyway right? Withholding the rent (while totally understandable and desirable) has potential ramifications that you don’t need, if indeed you’re going to purchase. I’d only stop paying the month of the trustee’s sale. But it would still irk me about that deposit you’re not going to get back.
Negotiating I’d look for a win win win. Bank wipes a bad loan off, you get a house, landlord gets out from under a bad deal (and without any more of your money) Don’t know if there is one, but maybe you can think of one.August 30, 2008 at 12:23 AM #263696AnonymousGuestBPO- Broker’s Price Opinion I think. They send someone to give them an estimate of what a broker would put it on the market for- as opposed to an appraiser. If you’re planning on purchasing come hell or high water, pay the rent and buy the place. That’s what you were originally planning on anyway right? Withholding the rent (while totally understandable and desirable) has potential ramifications that you don’t need, if indeed you’re going to purchase. I’d only stop paying the month of the trustee’s sale. But it would still irk me about that deposit you’re not going to get back.
Negotiating I’d look for a win win win. Bank wipes a bad loan off, you get a house, landlord gets out from under a bad deal (and without any more of your money) Don’t know if there is one, but maybe you can think of one. -
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