[quote=zRob]At the end of the day it is all water under the bridge and I may be making too much out of a 5k loss… my firm gave me 50k out of 55k loss.
I could ask him for the 5k – making me feel as slimy as him – which could be taken the wrong way (pay me or else) and guessing there is no way he’d pay
I could contact my firm, the relo company, and his broker and let the chips fall as they may.
or I could let it go… counting my blessings of a good corporate relo and only losing 5k.[/quote]
I would say that the ethical thing to do is to contact your firm and relo company and let them handle it. If you feel that your company may have been cheated, then why wouldn’t you let them know about it? How would it look if your company found out about this later and asked you “did you know about this?”. “Why didn’t you tell us?”