Xbox–Thanks. Intellectually, I already knew what you said. Emotionally, it’s harder. I know that one of the major jobs of teenhood is to separate from your parents. They HAVE to do this. But how can she reject this entire city? Before she left we regularly shopped at places like Buffalo Exchange (used vintage clothing) and ate at places like Vine Ripe Grill in La Mesa (Arabic). Are you saying she needs space from, not only us, but from her long-time boyfriend, who also lives here in S.D.? I know you’re not a shrink, but please play one.