What you really need is the perspective from the ladies on this site. I bet JPINPB and other ladies would have good input. Of course, reading this thread can be quite depressing if you are a woman. A hint, if you are a woman and have all of the following characteristics (I am. I do), you do NOT want to post a photo. Trust me on this one.
1. College degree
2. Non-smoker
3. No children from a previous relationship
If you want my opinion, I think the MeetUp groups are probably your best bet. You might also considering volunteering with a non-profit. Lots of nice, smart people. Even some hot ones.
Good luck! I hope you succeed and please let us know. I might borrow your idea for a Pigg son!