Well, congratulations to you and your marriage then! With you having jumped ship, that certainly doesn’t leave many of the long-time faithful to bite the bullet (CA Renter…)
Enjoy your garden and don’t worry about the rest of it. I’m sure you did better than most, so try not to be too hard on yourself and as a matter of fact, give yourself some credit for it. I don’t think anybody is able to beat this game (and heck, the house is only part of it).
Enjoy your husband, your garden and your house. And I hope the best for you in everything else as well. You’re just one of the cool ones.