We make plenty. About 4x’s the median (husband’s career), not counting my little 8 hr/wk 9 mo per year business +/-$12k (which all goes to paying for my kids’ extracurricular interests). I basically just stay home with kids.
Paid 330k for our big beautiful house in an unbelievably excellent public school system, gorgeous location. San Diego is beautiful (I grew up in Sol Beach/RSF/Del Mar so i know it well) – but it’s gone a bit manic depressive.
