[quote=UCGal]It’s kind of like desert – some people will NEVER say no to desert. Even when they’re full. Even when they’re on a diet. Others decide it’s not worth the calories or that they’re full – even though the desert looks really yummy. And a small percentage really have no interest in desert ever – no sweet tooth. The folks who turn it down do not necessarily live with regret over turning down the desert.[/quote]
I think that’s a good analogy.
Generally speaking, I don’t think it’s the nature of many men to be monogamous and imo what they really should refrain from doing is getting married if they cannot remain loyal to their vows.