This is a great thread. I have enjoyed reading the responses; they are intelligent and not inflammatory. (It appears that most posters on this board are logical, responsible and are sharper than the average bear).
That said, why are we commenting on Househunter’s choice to tithe or shop at Whole Foods? Both, are a preference and he defines his priorities. When we talk about money, we also talk about values. The value of what money really “means” to us, and how we should spend it or be in debt.
My suspicion is that Househunter goes to a very expensive synagogue. I would speak with the Temple CEO and see if you can bargain down the rate. That would be a good Jewish thing to do. (BTW, I was born and raised Jewish, now an atheist–but I contribute all year long to animal and environmental organizations–it is all a matter of priority).
Perhaps, you could pay for your internet. Corporate America will take your last dollar, market you till you can’t tell the difference between what is real and not real, but isn’t honesty important? How would you feel if you owned the business and someone was stealing from you? What are you role modeling for your children? Mixed messages.
Sounds like you are a nice young guy trying to make it work. Determine your priorities, you could cut back on some expenses but that would involve a sacrifice in other areas. Decide what is MOST important. Prioritize.
