Thanks for all the great advice…here are some responses to your questions, etc:
1. We are “kind of” calling their bluff. There is NO WAY we will let this issue lose us the house. All we have done at this point is ask the bank to reconsider their offer to pay up to $75 for the repairs (why not just offer $0?).
2. The banks still has not actually approved the sale. It has all been verbal at this point and even though we are in escrow there has been no paperwork from the bank saying that they have accepted the deal. Either way, it has been since mid July that we’ve been waiting since the seller’s signed the offer, took it off the MLS and started negotiating with the bank.
3. We are actually locked in for 60 days with Navy Federal (check out their rates!) for “free” so we have a few weeks to dilly dally before losing out on our great interest rate.