Thanks flu. My husband and kids will always come first, always. I would never do something like this without 100% agreement from my husband. We have discussed this in depth and reached this compromise. I think paying a minor bill might be a good idea too. I was just thinking to have him save every penny to get him on his feet ASAP.
Thanks surferdp. It will be tough for me to stick to my rules I’ll admit that right now. But I will do it and luckily I KNOW my husband will do it if I waffled even slightly!