I have a soloution for the growing old part, I’ll just die young, if that fails, I have fantastic long term care insurance coverage, so I’m getting sponge baths from a pro, we will just have to work something out with the tipping. Plus those high end country club type places for oldsters, that is a good time to be single, that’s where I’ll be, 3 to 1 odds, viagra, good times. I’m a little concerned how lower back tattoos and implants will fare after 40 years once I am in my 80’s working the bingo circuit, but that’s the thing about life, embrace the little suprises.[/quote]
Temeculaguy, it’s hard to argue with the idyllic portrait you’ve painted here. Man… why did I ever get married anyway?
As far as the clandestine sleepovers go, I’m sure that would be fine, but then the sleeping arrangements get complicated if you ever go on vacation together. You’ve got to expect that everyone will find out about the it eventually. You can always do what my mom did and be completely open about your sleepover dates.
Just be prepared when your kids (or grandkids) want to know why it’s ok for you to have sleepover dates but not for them.