SD Realtor – To maybe make you and some others feel a little better, I have seen many places go “pending” only to be BOM. I even dare say as discussed on other threads, it possibly could be a fake pending, or maybe an oral pending that turned out not to be, or a pending to get attention to the listing, perhaps cause someone to panic that the place they want is pending, and then when it goes BOM, attract a buyer.
I know there’s a lot of psychological games that occur and I question some of these pendings. Doesn’t mean they’re not legitimate, but I’m skeptical.