[quote=Scarlett]. . . One more point – UCSD has an excellent day care center – ECEC (early childhood education center). . . [/quote]
Scarlett, do you know if the Campus ECEC accepts infants, particularly those less than six months old?? Many commercial child-care providers (not home day-care) only accept children that are currently in the process of toilet training or already toilet-trained.
It would be GREAT if they did . . . at any cost, because then the OP’s spouse could visit her baby during lunch hours or other longer free periods during the workday.