[quote=scaredyclassic]i guess i just value cleanliness at all times very very low. why clean all the time? just clean when it gets really grosss.
i ahve been accused of just taking time to relax when i go to costco to buya bunch of crap.[/quote]
This is probably where a lot of the disagreement and resentment come from in many marriages. Spouses will often disagree about the value of the work done by the other spouse. They will probably always value what they do as being “worth more” than what their spouse does…and it’s probably true, based on each individual’s perspective.