I still think if they had lived differently in marriage they would have had a better chance at equity in child support, alimony and visitation. Divorce and subsequent life probably would have gone better overall. If the courts make decisions based on how the
couple/ family/children actually lived I can’t blame them.[/quote]
Russel, what the hell are you talking about? “if they had lived differently”? You are simply taking sides and assuming that any divorce is the man’s fault! And by the way, that is the same approach the courts are taking. No matter who did what!
