Rt66: To be fair, I have read sdrealtor and Russell’s posts over the years, and have found them to be well balanced without the hype. SDrealtor has a full time job as an Engineer, so I think he is not so desperate to make a dollar to sacrifice his integrity and reputation.
To the OP: As the sole breadwinner of the family, I am hoping that your wife would be grateful for her good fortune and your committment. A bigger house will not happiness make. It is all just stuff. When you go to your grave, will your eulogy consist of what a great house you had? Or what kind of person you were?