[quote=njtosd]
If you don’t want to get married under the conditions that the other person desires, don’t get married. If you agree, you should honor your word. No one holds a gun to your head and tells you to get married (unless you’re very unlucky). It’s a free choice.
I don’t believe that everyone needs to be married, any more than I believe that everyone should buy a house, take part in a religion or any other activity. All I’m saying is that people who promise something that they don’t intend to carry through on are, by definition, misleading others.
Guys who don’t want to get married should hang out with women who don’t want to get married. And if there is a married couple where both parties agree that sex outside the marriage is acceptable – great. But when you promise fidelity with your fingers crossed behind your back, it makes you a liar.[/quote]
