in brief to answer your questions…some medical issues, some family issues (sister in law moving in with us), new job moving me up to work in San marcos in August while hubby will still be working in Hillcrest. Encinitas would be central and my husbands loves that area. I don’t want to move or house hunt while pregnant because of my medical issues.
Everyone has there on reasons…for me its a quality of life issue. In medicine, every day I am faced with trying to understand other people’s values and priorities because it effects their health related behaviors. They often differ from mine considerably, I do the same thing you did, I ask more to understand- thank-you I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I hope some of my answer above helps you understand my priorities but i didn’t want to spill my guts too much on the forum…..rest assured if you still don’t understand I could do on for pages with more details of the whole things…