My wife told me recently that 4 out of 4 volunteers in my kids class that had participated significantly enough to get a sort of thank you Christmas present from the teacher were men! This is first grade, not high school football practice. times have changed quite a bit I would say.
I know two elderly men who have been divorced 3 times each…kids everywhere. I have never heard them generalize in a negative tone about women and they still sincerely appreciate them. Of the six exes I only hear about one being a bad person and the kids from her think it too. Maybe we are getting weak.