Marion,
Let me make a quick guess. Your favorite book is “The Secret” lol
Why would anyone who has it so together as you need to ask such a silly quesion on this particular board? Could it be that you absolutely crave attention from the predominately male oriented board? And by posting such off topic posts you get that attention?
Could it be this is the best use of your time?
By now I know that my opinion does not “matter to you in the least” and you do not suffer from the same fear as most older women – about to go though ” the change” becasue you are so together.