LOL Marion, the problem is your approach. Settle down.
Your attitude reeks of entitlement, narcissism and demands. I can guarantee you that most of the men on this site would not deal with you, even if you are a size 6! Most of the guys on this site are thinkers. They crunch numbers and research a bunch of shit. Smart men, and also helpful.
When you have these kinds of entitlements, well, it is not attractive. Its ugly and it makes you ugly. You come across shallow and superficial, and that does nothing for you. You have a Paris Hilton problem, empty of soul and heart.
I am sorry for you. Good luck in making things work out for you.