[quote=justsayin1964]…You are correct if you are speaking to people who purchased above thier means.[/quote]
I can’t afford a Ferrari. I have enough money to buy one, but I can’t afford it. It sounds like what I mean when I say “can’t afford” is the same as what you mean when you say “above one’s means”.
I have more sympathy for someone who bought at the top of the market using only their own money than people who did the same thing using only other people’s money. But buying a home for more than 3x income at the height of the largest RE bubble in recorded history is worse than dumb in my books – it is irresponsible.