[quote=jpinpb]CAR and BG – That’s been my experience and observations as well. I’m almost starting to think the subservient aspect is a myth. They’re running the show.[/quote]
But you must take into account that when courted by an American in their own country, they pulled off a “demure and subservient” role with aplomb, enough to be able to travel to the U.S. with and marry their “sponsor” and later bring in up to 12 other family members using the same “sponsor’s” SSN. Many later divorced after all their family members were legally here.
This widespread “sponsorship” no longer happens to this extent now, but was a common occurrence from the mid-seventies up through the early nineties, when American military bases in certain countries were closed.
I don’t blame foreign women for wanting more opportunity for they and their families at any cost. What I DO have a problem with is single men stating that they PREFER foreign-immigrant partners over American women when they themselves are American-born. I believe many of the mens’ reasons for this preference are based upon misconceptions and even false pretenses.