IMO San Diego is a bit overrated. Sure it has great weather and beaches but after that the city doesn’t offer much that you can’t find in other places. It reminds me of the time about 10 years ago I had to call a locksmith to open my car door.
The guy started talking about how tired he was of living in San Diego after five years and was moving to North Carolina. At the time I found this odd that any one would hate living here but after 10 years of SD myself I think I am feeling a bit bored and wanting something different too. Different strokes for different folks I guess.